Girl Friend Issues: Tough Situation In Need Of Help?

Taking control will only result in her breaking up with you and saying that you harrased her. Plus her parents will control your relationship even more. She seems like a pretty sweet girl and if you really love her, then you will wait it out for her. Don't become abusive...she will open up when she's ready...if you want something more, then maybe you need someone on the same page as you and you should call it off